Our Big Day!
WEDDING DAY — 28 FEBRUARY 2026
Chicago Winery
739 N CLARK ST, CHICAGO, IL 60654
5:30 PM — 11:00 PM
PLEASE ARRIVE BY 5:15 PM — CEREMONY TO START PROMPTLY
COCKTAIL HOUR, DINNER & DANCING TO FOLLOW
NIGHT BEFORE — 27 FEBRUARY 2026
MORE DETAILS TO COME!
Our Wedding Venue
ABOUT CHICAGO WINERY
All wedding events - the ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner and reception will be held at Chicago Winery.
Chicago Winery does not offer parking, but there are self-parking lots available nearby if driving. We recommend taking a ride share to the venue.
Our Lao Ceremony
A CELEBRATION ROOTED IN LAO TRADITION
We’re so excited to share our wedding day with you — and even more honored to celebrate it through the rich and meaningful traditions of a Lao wedding.
ABOUT THE CEREMONY
The Lao wedding ceremony, called the ‘Baci’ is a gathering that brings together family and friends to offer blessings, good wishes, and love. It is centered around a beautifully decorated centerpiece made of flowers, banana leaves, and white cotton strings, which symbolize purity and connection.
THE GROOM’S PROCESSION
The ceremony will start with the groom’s entrance — where Jacob will be accompanied by his family and groomsmen. The procession carries gifts as offerings to symbolize respect, prosperity, and good will.
THE PATH THROUGH THE GATES
Before Jacob can reach Melissa, he must pass through a series of symbolic gates — represented by silver or gold sashes held across the path by family and bridesmaids. These are known as ‘doors’ and represent the transition between two families and the challenges of winning a bride. At each gate, Jacob must negotiate through playful bargaining and bribes. The bridesmaids may then ‘open the gate’ and let Jacob continue.
THE CEREMONIAL STRINGS
During the Baci, loved ones will tie the strings around Melissa and Jacob’s wrists while offering kind words and prayers for health, happiness, and harmony.
We invite you all to come see us during cocktail hour to tie us your wishes!
Learn Lao
‘HELLO’ — SABAIDEE
‘YUMMY/DELICIOUS’ — SAP LAI!
‘CHEERS'!’ — THUM!
‘THANK YOU’ — KHOP JAI
‘I LOVE YOU’ — KHOI HAK CHAO
Attire
AN INTIMATE DINNER PARTY — CHIC, ROMANTIC, AND CULTURE INFUSED
FOR LADIES — Mid to floor length cocktail dresses or gowns in rich and vibrant colors, inspired by Asian fruits, bold silks, and organic floral forms. A traditional Lao dress is welcome and appreciated.
FOR MEN — A tailored suit and dress shoes — traditional Lao tailored shirts and dress pants are also welcome.